Dieting. Gag, blah, ugh, grr, argh. That basically describes how I feel about it. It is the most difficult thing I do to myself. Some people are blessed with the ability to not even have to worry about it. I on the other hand am not. I embrace my curves, but when I start finding curves in all the wrong places, it’s time straighten them back out.
I used to be so tiny. That was before my first kiddo. I did the whole “I can eat everything, I’m pregnant!” Yeah, I lied to myself. I doubled my size. I worked out and somebody (no names) bought me NutriSystem for my birthday. I did ok on it, but never got down to my size 4-5 again.
After I had my son, I was stressed out due to a long divorce. I was really sick with him also. The hospital gave me penicillin (I’m allergic) and I lost way too much blood for my own good. I dropped a ton of weight. So, technically I lost all my babyweight, but it really wasn’t the healthy way. I didn’t like the way I looked at all. I was pale, too thin, just not right. I had to get myself at a healthy weight again, but we (mostly I) decided I wanted another baby.
My third baby came along and so did the birth of my love handles. I looked fine while pregnant, but after giving birth I gained my baby weight (I know, that doesn’t make sense, but it totally happened.) Now, I struggle.
If I would have been born another 3 or 4 inches taller, I would be the perfect weight. I’d be a hot momma. But, I am vertically challenged. Like my Dad told me, “I’m not overweight, I’m undertall!” Totally true.
Vanity isn’t the most important thing to me. Of course I want to look nice, but I also don’t want to be stickly. I want to be healthy for my children, my Fiance and myself. We forget about all of that greasy food clogging our veins. It starts building up early in life. I can’t stand the dirty dishes in my sink having food stuck to them. The last thing I want is for something disgusting to clog my arteries. So, I am determined to get in shape. It may take me a few months. It’ll likely take me a year, but I will do this.
I can do this.
I do just have to ask myself why I am choosing to do this before Thanksgiving. Terrible timing. But, better now than when I am in the dressing room, under fluorescent lighting, trying on bathing suits next summer. There’s some more motivation to get it done now. 😉
xoxo,
Stacy
cat spraying
Dec 07, 2011 @ 12:18:27
I found this quote very fitting “Don’t fear failure so much that you refuse to try new things. The saddest summary of a life contains three descriptions: could have, might have, and should have.” — Louis E. Boone